Parents sometimes approach the special education system with hesitation. This may be due to other person’s experiences which they heard about or they may have had to put up a good fight to get their child considered as meeting the requirements for special education. It is a scary thing to enter a situation of which you are unsure of especially when you know nothing of the teachers. Generally, there are a few things of which you should keep in mind when having to handle special education.The first thing to remember is that the people who work with special education children only want the best for them. It can be difficult to accept; however, even though these people may seem to have other things on their plates, the truth is that many times they have lots of paper work and politics to cope with. This does not mean that they do not care about their job or your child; it just means that they are human and they have many elements of their jobs to think about. This is an important thing to remember when you have a disagreement with a teacher or administrator as it may help make your negotiations a lot easier.Another important thing to remember is that while the school is required to give your child education, as long as it is adequate, they are doing their job. You may feel as if your child deserves one on one attention all the time but this may not be possible. When your child has the individualized attention of an aide, then this means this aide is unavailable for the use of another child. Remember that schools have limited resources which do include time and funding. As a result, you as the parent may have to devote your own time and money towards getting that extra assistance that may be needed. You may just have to accept what can be done such as having an aide available for part of the day or utilizing resource room help for challenging subjects.You will want to document everything that the school provides. The purpose of this is to assist with understanding what was agreed upon. As a result, the relevant persons will be held accountable for their work. So, if your child receives an evaluation or a note from the school or home work samples, save it. This will be proof of what happened. Documentation can serve another purpose as well. It acts as a collective record of your child’s schooling. This can be a big boost of encouragement to be able to review the skills that he or she has acquired.If you do find yourself in a situation where you have a disagreement with the school, you should know that as the parent, you probably have the legal advantage. The internet has sites where you can get free information about your rights as a parent of a special education student. Familiarizing yourself with these rights will assist you in knowing the grounds to pursue a disagreement in the legal context.